Saturday, November 8, 2008

Change Will Come


Why is it so hard to tell people that you care about how you really feel?You determine that the next time you get the chance you will tell them but once you do see them,you can't.All bets are off. You start thinking of how they will feel and how you don't want to hurt them.Then you start making excuses how its not the right time for them.Whats worse is that when it comes to how you feel,they don't think twice.They always say that the problem is you and that you need to change.However they fail to see the small changes that have occurred in you,how you have changed as a person.How you have grown as an individual.You always encourage them,support them and push them to follow their dreams and go for their goals.You see the changes in them as they grow and are happy.You encourage them to change for themselves.

One day you will speak up.One day change will come.Hey it happened for Obama right!?

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

History in the making..Now WHAT?!


Okay so Obama won.Now what.That's all I can come up with now that all the fan fare is dying down.I mean its great but at the back of my mind I'm wondering is he going to last?Are they going to try to kill him?Its not so far fetched,come to think of it.He is black and not in my lifetime did I ever think I would see a black president of the U.S.The world all over is loving the change,but what does this signify really.I guess I'm like some conspiracy theorist,but I don't think this spells too good of a future.I just hope that he is not what some people are saying.I'M WAITING TO SEE...

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Emotional Cheating



I have come to the shocking realisation that men cheat for more emotional reasons than women.This brings me to the second point that its harder for them to let go of an emotional affair.Why can they not talk about their feelings openly?It would cause a lot less problems if they did.Then it would give some insight to their partners.Point number 2 causes point 3,the destruction of a good relationship.When you have tried all you can and there is not even a peephole at the end of the tunnel,it frustrates.You want to give up but you hang on in hopes that things will change,if you give it another day.Then creeps in the bitterness which boils into resentment and finally explodes into anger.You end up leaving the relationship in that state of unresolved anger.That 1 spoiled relationship changes your view of men,maybe for life.The cycle continues.Its just not fair.

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Halloween

I may be old fashion but I think women's clothing is getting out of hand.It seems like the more clothes men wear, the less women are wearing.Women's clothing get shorter and tighter every season.I've seen some females(can't tell if they are kids or adults) who walk funny and don't even contemplate bending because their skirts are so short.The necklines also drop significantly, so much so that you don't even have to try to get a peek.Now I'm not generally up on fashion but from what I'm seeing designers need to rethink some of their choices.I mean when you can't tell if you are looking at a 14 or a 24 yr old,something has to change.

Sunday, October 5, 2008

Season changing

Life changes so quickly if you are no paying attention it will pass you by.




My nephew is already going to school and my sister is done with it.I'm back to work and I feel like I miss so many things.Friends are moving on,relationships are changing and people are ageing. The day turns to night faster and before you know it another year has past.As seasons change so do people,as is the cycle of life.Sometimes we don't want to but we have too.Life is not meant to be at a stand still there is enough time for that when we are dead!We have no choice but to live.But change is always hard.Take a look at nature.Some plants refuse to bend to the harsh north winds and as if in a battle of will the first leaf struggles not to fall off,to indicate the season has changed.We fear the unknown of change and what it may bring,the endless possibilities, the choices and decisions.The fear of making the wrong decision,of failure.


There is one thought that keeps me going, the thought of a higher being that has my best interest in mind.It may sound stupid,but God is the one that gives me peace when the time comes for change.He helps me to let go and not struggle against the winds of change but to glide gracefully with it, not worrying about where I will land.My life is ultimately in God's hands.

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Camp 2008

Genesis 35;2 Put away the foreign gods from among you,purify yourselves and change your garments


Camp 2008 was held at CastleBruce Secondary. It lasted about 8 days from August 7-15. It was alot of work keeping the campers in line and trying to get them to have fun at the same time. The first few days were like working on a slave plantation; resistant workers, rationed food and poor bathrooms! Imagine even I wanted to go home!! Sunday changed things alot. After an encouraging youth service, we began to work together. The food improved and the toilets and bathrooms were made livable. We had fun with a water fight, group competitions,treasure hunt, river baths and sessions. We made lots of friends, some people showed signs of maturity,namely Dennis, who consequently won camp king. Relationships bloomed, namely Hilroy and Shanica's. They will be seeing alot of each other come September. Old friendships were renewed,the brotherhood of Marlon and Tyrone LOL!! We even had people who would like to be officials next time around.
Camp had its ups and downs, but all in all it was good.Thank God!! We even made a hi5 and a blog (check us out under links ). Expect alot more to come from us.

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Crazy

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crazy peple

The world seems to be filled with nutjobs.There are the regular ones,like your crazy friends (we all have them). Then there are the ones who stalk and then try to harm you.Finally there are those who are undecided.Now those are the people you have to worry about!Like the good book say s a double minded man is unstable in all his ways;one minute the are cool with you and the next they are trying to run you over with a car!Psychos!! :)

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Lightsource.com - The Potter's Touch / Bishop T.D. Jakes

Lightsource.com - The Potter's Touch / Bishop T.D. Jakes


This is an amazing session.I recommend that you take the time to listen.It will affect your life for the better.Just take a look,please.Enjoy I know I did!

Monday, July 21, 2008

Not Alone

Some people believe that we have soul mates,that we are not whole by ourselves.That sounds beautiful.Its like the story I heard when I was a child.I was told that God said it was not good for man to dwell alone.This was after he was done creating and all the animals had a mate.Adam was the only one of his kind.Although he was the lord of the garden,commanded the animals and communed with God,he was alone.So God put him into a deep sleep and took a rib from his side.When he finally awoke,he was no longer alone.He had a mate. So not only do they shear the same soul but a rib as well : ) .That means that they are to support each other and protect each other's heart.One is not the lord over the other,but they are equal, standing side by side.

What about those who don't have a soul mate?Don't worry they were not meant to have only one soul mate,but rather to shear God's love to all.So they are neither alone nor lonely.God thinks of everything : )

Saturday, July 19, 2008

Call it

People in authority make mistakes,after all they are human. However, there are those who refuse to acknowledge their faults. At times I don't blame them, because there are people who know what they are doing and cover for them.That sends the message that its OK,that maybe its not really their fault.

On the other hand there are people who see those faults and do something about it.They call out the leaders, in public.While I'm all for justice, I wonder what is the motivation and cost.Maybe the overriding thought here should be that SIN is sin and wrong is wrong no matter who is involved,no matter what the motivation or cost.

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Masquerade

Life is funny at times.We look up to people and use them as role models.They hold characteristics that we admire, for some reason or another.When these people allow us to see who they truly are( people who make mistakes) we usually walk away with out a word.We don't try to understand.




Its even worse when that person is just an ordinary person,someone that could be you.When we see them with all their mistakes, we walk away,to find a stone to cast!We don't want to understand why.




Now here is the funny part.We cast the stone not because people fail,but rather ,they FAIL to keep up the facade.Mabey Shakespeare was right, all the world is a stage and we are the actors.






Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Me


Hi everyone!Thanks for checking my blog.ok,about me. I was born and raised in Dominica a BEAUTIFUL country,said to be the nature isle of the Caribbean.I love food,though you can't tell because of my size,yeah me ; ). I think that I'm fun to be around, once you get to know me. Oh i also like checking out new people.