Emotional Cheating

I have come to the shocking realisation that men cheat for more emotional reasons than women.This brings me to the second point that its harder for them to let go of an emotional affair.Why can they not talk about their feelings openly?It would cause a lot less problems if they did.Then it would give some insight to their partners.Point number 2 causes point 3,the destruction of a good relationship.When you have tried all you can and there is not even a peephole at the end of the tunnel,it frustrates.You want to give up but you hang on in hopes that things will change,if you give it another day.Then creeps in the bitterness which boils into resentment and finally explodes into anger.You end up leaving the relationship in that state of unresolved anger.That 1 spoiled relationship changes your view of men,maybe for life.The cycle continues.Its just not fair.

Halloween

I may be old fashion but I think women's clothing is getting out of hand.It seems like the more clothes men wear, the less women are wearing.Women's clothing get shorter and tighter every season.I've seen some females(can't tell if they are kids or adults) who walk funny and don't even contemplate bending because their skirts are so short.The necklines also drop significantly, so much so that you don't even have to try to get a peek.Now I'm not generally up on fashion but from what I'm seeing designers need to rethink some of their choices.I mean when you can't tell if you are looking at a 14 or a 24 yr old,something has to change.

Season changing

Life changes so quickly if you are no paying attention it will pass you by.

My nephew is already going to school and my sister is done with it.I'm back to work and I feel like I miss so many things.Friends are moving on,relationships are changing and people are ageing. The day turns to night faster and before you know it another year has past.As seasons change so do people,as is the cycle of life.Sometimes we don't want to but we have too.Life is not meant to be at a stand still there is enough time for that when we are dead!We have no choice but to live.But change is always hard.Take a look at nature.Some plants refuse to bend to the harsh north winds and as if in a battle of will the first leaf struggles not to fall off,to indicate the season has changed.We fear the unknown of change and what it may bring,the endless possibilities, the choices and decisions.The fear of making the wrong decision,of failure.

There is one thought that keeps me going, the thought of a higher being that has my best interest in mind.It may sound stupid,but God is the one that gives me peace when the time comes for change.He helps me to let go and not struggle against the winds of change but to glide gracefully with it, not worrying about where I will land.My life is ultimately in God's hands.